25. The Discomfort That Grows You: Money Shame, Neurodivergence, and Embodied Wealth

Season #1

Episode Summary:

In this unfiltered solo episode, Kate Bailey gets radically honest about what it means to live, lead, and create wealth while being neurodivergent in a body that doesn’t always cooperate.


Recorded after a rupture in sisterhood and during a three-day Liquid Motion certification, this conversation is an intimate look at the discomfort that grows you and the discomfort that shrinks you.
Kate shares her lived experience navigating undiagnosed autoimmune pain, money shame, and the relentless expectations of entrepreneurship, all while learning to meet herself with devotion instead of judgment.


Inside, you’ll learn why so many neurodivergent women are experts at sitting in discomfort and how to discern whether that discomfort is expanding your power or eroding it. Because the reality is you don’t have to twist yourself inside out to make others comfortable. You don’t have to carry the weight of their projections. And you don’t have to pretend you have it all together to deserve wealth, belonging, and pleasure.
This episode includes a grounding somatic practice to help you soften into safety and a nervous system repatterning exercise to stretch your capacity to receive. Kate also shares an invitation into Hot Erotic Messy Money, now open during the Super Early Bird period through July 11th.

Keywords: Money shame healing, embodied wealth, neurodivergent entrepreneurship, invisible disabilities, somatic money practice, Liquid Motion dance, Play Big Queen Podcast, ADHD and money, creative money rituals, embodied leadership, women’s wealth coaching

Takeaways:

✔️ You deserve spaces that respect and celebrate you — not just tolerate you.

✔️ Discomfort is inevitable, but you get to choose whether it grows you or shrinks you.

✔️ Neurodivergent women have a situational confidence born from navigating lifelong discomfort.

✔️ Money shame cannot survive curiosity and devotion.

✔️ Somatic practices help your nervous system feel safe enough to hold more abundance without collapse.

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