30. Understanding Neurodivergent Communication: Why Slower Responses Deserve More Respect

Season #1

Summary:

In this essential episode of the Play Big Queen Podcast, Kate Bailey explores how speech and communication challenges show up for neurodivergent folks, including those with ADHD, autism, traumatic brain injury (TBI), and stroke recovery. She shares her personal experiences with language loss, speech processing, and cognitive overload, while dismantling harmful stereotypes that equate quick speech with intelligence. You’ll walk away with a deeper understanding of how to create more inclusive spaces, advocate for your needs, and reclaim your rhythm.

Keywords: neurodivergent communication, ADHD speech, stroke recovery, internalized ableism, speech processing, auditory processing, trauma-informed leadership, neurodiversity in business, comprehension vs. expression, inclusive communication

Takeaways:

✔️ Comprehension and expression are separate processes in the brain.

✔️ Neurodivergent communication is often misunderstood in leadership and social spaces.

✔️ Slower response time is not a lack of intelligence.

✔️ The disability community is not a fixed club, you can join at any time.

✔️ Inclusive leadership means honoring diverse rhythms, not just fast-talking ones.

✔️ It’s time to redesign the table, not just offer a seat.


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