EMBRACE YOUR BRILLIANCE SO YOU CAN PLAY BIG AND RECEIVE YOUR BOLDEST DESIRES IN LIFE + BUSINESS

 
Free confidence exercises for women who are ready for more self trust, to be more secure in your gifts, embody your brilliance and awaken your inner Play Big Queen.

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IT'S TIME TO PLAY BIG QUEEN.

 

Own your brilliance. Reclaim your unique way. Get confident in your value. Surrender to receiving what you desire most - to FEEL better because you're doing life and business YOUR way.

Imagine that success in all areas - life, love and business - is simply a result of aligning with who you are, knowing what you want, being true to yourself and how you work, and you… simply being more you. 

Imagine having a life + business where you get to take the pressure off. 


Your day-to-day feels pleasurable and easy. Your relationships just flow. Business is booming.

You are turned on, tapped in, and you have the freedom to relax into the flow of your own magic.

Imagine having more time and energy to be fully present.

People say they don’t know what’s changed, but they ‘love your energy.’ Your biggest desires seem inevitable - because they are. You get to do life on your terms AND be fully supported in creating the bigger vision for how you make your income, impact and how you do business.

You operate from love, not fear. You run towards your dreams, and not away from your problems. You have stepped into the role of the spiritual leader in your family, communities, and in the world.

You are in your Play Big Queen energy and you don't shrink in the face of what you want most. You take massive action and go for it, but without sacrificing your health, wellness or pleasure.

You are more of a realist than people give you credit for and your mind is wide open. 


You already know that in order to manifest what you want, you're going to have to try something different. 

For your next uplevel, you’re going to have to be ready to get into massive action, but while honoring your own timing, who you are, how you work... and you're going to have to be bold and authentic AF in both how you do business, and how you love yourself in life.

But you might be hesitant about being that real with yourself about what you really want - because what comes next, can be scary.

What comes next, is change. And you're scared that if you rock the boat in your world that the relationship, the job, the parts of life that you want to hold on to, won't hold up. 


But you know it’s time to be courageous and discover a new way of being that doesn't involve masking, pretending, performing, perfectionism, people-pleasing, over giving, pressure, hustle, good girl conditioning or conformity.

You know it's time to learn how to get what you truly want and be happy for real.

And it is challenging when you don't know what that looks or feels like.


It's more than just growing who you are as a person. It's stepping into your power as a woman.
 

Maybe people see you and say "omg she is such a go-getter. She is so hard working." Everyone looks at you like you are this inspiration, like this woman who has it all together, but if they only knew. That really… you work so hard and are constantly so driven and give so much because… you don’t know how, to not do that.

People see you as powerful, daring or bold, but in truth, you don’t know how to actually get what you really want out of life in a way that would make you feel like you don’t always have to be so worked to the bone, grinding, or in this pressure energy.

No one close to you truly gets it. Because you are a visionary and likely see things that they just don't. And they are satisfied with more of the same, while you love to learn, crave growth, want to make an impact and want deeper, more conscious, and intentional connections with yourself and others.

It's okay to release the pressure of conformity. You are allowed to seek alternative methods of support. It's okay to admit you don't want more of the same because it is crushing your soul.
 

And you are not alone. And you are not crazy or foolish. And of course you want different. And different wants you. It is out there, waiting for you to claim it.

There are so many brilliant, non-traditional women like you who want more out of life and with your unique life experience, I promise, there is such a better way for you.

And we’re going to explore this way together. And it’s going to be okay if it takes time to learn this new way. Because, however long it takes, I’m here for you.



Instead of grappling with people who don't understand, shift your focus to working with conscious women who can show you the way.

Do these embodiment exercises to get a feel for this new way of being and feel what it is like to not be driven under pressure all the time - but to trust yourself, love yourself, be joyfully driven, in your pleasure, energized by life.



In my world, what makes you different, makes you ROYALTY.

The Play Big Queen archetype is the version of you who is secure in her inner knowing; the truth that a neurotypical patriarchal society doesn't want you to be conscious of - that you CAN trust yourself. You can trust yourself to rule your reality as you go through changes big and small and you get to experience your brilliance and the power of being ALL that you are.

It is safe to come down from the stress. It is safe to be in your body. It is safe to be your true self in all your brilliance working towards what you truly desire. It is safe to claim your desires. It is safe to receive them. It is safe to coronate your damn self.

Let me show you how...

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for women who want to anchor into more trust, ease + flow. 

Rhiannon J

As a person who loves loving others, I often struggle with giving away too much. Kate skillfully and authentically provided me with a map to meeting the deepest love possible within myself. She guided my beautiful mix of magic and mess, encouraging full expression of both. I am so excited to dive further into the intersection of where my purpose and pleasure meet; where I take a step each day toward a life completely on my terms.

Amanda B

Women of the world need to know! The experience of working with Kate Bailey is an act of self love and an act of self care. It is a show of readiness and willingness to be supported, guided, and provided for while navigating all the aspects of yourself in order to get what you truly desire out of life.

Sara C

Kate's coaching set my dreams on their head. ... Kate's workshop not only lit up my desires but my partners too. This is the real deal! Kate created a super safe container of women where we fed off the energy of celebrating one another, deeply listening to one another's challenges and holding each other. Kate's super power is definitely in creating organic sisterhood where women thrive and are empowered to soar. Her work is a blessing.

Meet Your Mentor Kate Bailey

Hi! I'm Kate Bailey.

I am so excited you are here!

I am a business and embodiment mentor. I also go by the name 'Play Big Queen.'  My name is my title, and a command for all women - "Play BIG, Queen!"

It's a title I invite you to claim too, should you find it empowering. (It's also the name of my Podcast.)

I work with neurodivergent women and nonbinary folk who are ready to build the bigger vision for your life and business. 

My coaching and all my offers and creations are a hybrid of 3 methods that work in tandem to create massive shifts and get customized results.

TRANSFORMATIVE. INTUITIVE. EMBODIED. 

I use my intuition, and get you to use YOUR intuition, to transform the way you see yourself and what you think you are capable of being, doing and having in your life because from there - everything changes. And when you can embody the version of your self that knows its brilliance, you become capable of ruling your reality.

I have done it all in my search for true happiness - from working corporate and casting talent for MTV to serving in the New York City Fire Department as a HazMat EMT and instructor.

I live in a home where everyone is neurodivergent. In a prior life, I was an EMS professional. I am trained and have taught on, how to respond to mental health and behavioral emergencies. As a profession, for a lot of people in underserved communities, EMS is a pathway out of poverty and so my students typically present with an array of learning challenges that often go undiagnosed and unsupported.

I learned I have a gift for guiding people through the process of ‘figuring it out.’

I also went to SIX different colleges before discovering that I have a learning disability that I never received help for.  It made me shrink, play small, and think that there was something fundamentally wrong with me and how I work.

At one point in my journey, I had a thought - 'it is possible that I am brilliant, and that there is more for me in life than this.' I had a desire for a bigger, happier, more abundant life. And that desire demanded to be acknowledged.

I created Kate Bailey LLC, a company that provides coaching services, educational courses and products that promote success in neurodiversity advocacy, women's empowerment, embodiment, entrepreneurship and business.

Now I meet people who are different, at that point of possibility and show them how to value their own unique way, honor their own timing, and how to have the confidence to be brilliant, and self-mastery to create a life and business that they are madly in love with. 

I hope you'll join me on this journey where there is so much waiting for you.
 
 

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It's time to activate your play big self, the one who plays all out with no regrets. 

'PLAY BIG QUEEN'


I still don't get it. Why ‘Play Big Queen’? What’s that all about?

Play Big Queen is a 3 word revolution, a brand, a mission, a message, a rally cry and archetype encouraging neurodivergent women to step out of their smallness, step into your play big self and to know that what makes you different makes you royalty.

Play Big Queens are visionaries, rebels, and disruptors of the status quo who have decided to relate to being different as a good thing.

Wether diagnosed, undiagnosed, or self diagnosed, as someone who is neurodivergent our self concept shrinks when our thoughts, behaviors, preferences, and qualities are compared to a neurotypical standard.

This conditioning around our self concept starts at a very young age (approximately 3-7 years old) with educational institutions and structures that mainly support the neurotypical mainstream in their development.

So many neurodivergent people are socialized to believe we are different and that having a difference is a bad thing.

A lack of education and understanding around neurodiversity and neurodivergent peoples often leaves NDs other-ed by traditional society and that other-ness makes us shrink into our small self.

We then grow up to be adult humans who other ourselves and take ourselves out of the game of life, whenever there is a chance to play. This often is an unconscious strategy that is rooted in fear and an attempt to keep ourselves safe.

In traditional school and work environments, neurodivergent people are more susceptible to violence, bullying, abuse, disenfranchisement from traditional school or work opportunities, and not being supported with the supplemental resources or accommodations needed to thrive because neurodivergent traits can be invisible to the uninformed neurotypical eye.

Some neurodivergent traits are often misinterpreted such as:

• selective mutism being misinterpreted as non-compliance

• difficulty reading social cues misinterpreted as a lack of empathy

• comprehension disorders misinterpreted as low intelligence or laziness

• impulsive or hyper verbal traits misinterpreted as annoying, disrespectful or rude

• time blindness misinterpreted as being irresponsible

• motor sensory challenges misinterpreted as clumsiness

• an ability to make seemingly unrelated connections to different ideas misinterpreted as being all over the place

• organizational challenges misinterpreted as being flakey or not caring

… and these misinterpretations often lead to discrimination, exclusion and sometimes, abuse.

Being socialized in this way leaves many neurodivergent people feeling ‘like a joke’ ‘an idiot’ ‘annoying’ ‘too sensitive’ ‘stupid’ ‘crazy’ or ‘incompetent.’ And many NDs have even been called these names directly.

The volume on the self-blame, self attack, self-doubt, self criticism, anxiety and fear is turned all the way up for many neurodivergent people...

... and if we don't do the work to reclaim our brilliance, heal our self concept, embody confidence, self respect and self love, then we will stay sitting on the sidelines instead of getting in the game of life and doing the BIG things that we know we were born to do.

Play Big Queen as a message is an invitation to embrace, celebrate, and love your difference, knowing that your difference is what makes you brilliant. Your Play Big Self - whether you call that a Play Big Queen or some other name - is the person you become on the other end of this journey... the one who is the living embodiment of the person who is has gone on their “Play Big Journey" determined to come out successful.

A Play Big Journey is where we consciously step out of our smallness and move from feeling like an incompetent joker to a person who is regally poised in our inner knowing that we are capable of ruling our own reality and creating a massive impact. 

It is the journey from feeling like a court jester in a kingdom of elite, exclusive neurotypicals to knowing beyond the shadows of all our self doubts, that we are not victims and we were born to rule. We are leaders who are here to buck the status quo. We are brilliant and we belong in all the spaces and places where big things are happening.

The Play Big Journey is an awakening that leads you through a process where you RECLAIM who you are + what you want, RELEASE patterns + behaviors of smallness that no longer serve you, REJECT of the labels society has placed on you that keep you small, and learn to EMBODY the expanded, next-level version of yourself who is positioned to RECEIVE your boldest desires in life, love + business.

Whether the Queen archetype resonates for you or not, or if you would be more comfortable with King or any other title or vibe… the invitation and activation remains the same -

to learn to operate from love instead of fear - to decide to unmask, reclaim, embrace and embody your brilliance and create a life and business that actually works with the unique way that you work.

Play Big Queen. 

It’s a title you choose to coronate yourself with.

It’s a command for all women.

It’s a new era for neurodivergent people.

Long May We Reign.