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A black and white photo of a Kate in lace and Pleaser heels crawling across a mirrored surface, her reflection visible below. The text reads: HOT erotic MESSY MONEY. Tagline: Unleash your erotic power and transform your relationship with money.

Unleash your erotic power and
transform your relationship
with money.

This is for the secretly exhausted baddie everyone depends on.

For the woman who gets shit done but feels starved for turn-on. Or the brilliant babe who’s done all the things and still feels stuck in perfectionism.

The one who is accomplished, capable, and quietly craving more.

Not a spreadsheet.
Not a strategy session.

A full-body reset to remember:

wealth is not earned—
it’s embodied.

Yes, I want my bank account to respond like a lover I actually trust.

You've healed. You've grown...
but your bank account still thinks survival is sexier than overflow.


Imagine waking up and not reaching for your phone… not checking emails or Slack… not calculating how behind you are… but just being. You stretch in bed, hips circling, breath deep, and for the first time in forever, you feel present. Sensual. Alive. Aroused by your own damn existence.

You move through your day turned on, magnetic, unapologetically alive… barefoot in the grass, dripping confidence, Stripe notifications pinging as your lover kisses your neck.

You’re not “earning money.” You’re inviting it. You’re not building someone else’s dream. You’re finally living yours.

This is for the woman who’s done everything “right” and still feels like something is missing.

Welcome to Hot Erotic Messy Money... the workshop that initiates you into your wealthy self through your erotic identity.

**Image Description:** A black and white artistic photo shows two women sitting closely together in a soft, intimate pose. One has medium-toned skin and the other has lighter-toned skin. Their bare legs are layered over each other in a relaxed cross-legged position. The word **“POWER”** is painted in bold black letters on the thigh of the darker-skinned woman, while the word **“WEALTHY”** appears in vivid red paint on the thigh of the lighter-skinned woman, upside down from the viewer’s perspective. Both women gently rest their hands on each other’s legs, creating a sense of connection, softness, and strength. The image emphasizes body as canvas, creative affirmation, and editorial vulnerability.
Image Description: A black-and-white portrait of a Black woman with long straight hair sitting upright in bed. She wears a dark tank top and is partially wrapped in a light-colored blanket. Her face is softly lit from one side, leaving the other half in shadow, creating a strong contrast. She gazes off to the side with a serious, unreadable expression that conveys emotional distance and introspection. Her posture is still and composed, adding to the quiet, contemplative atmosphere. Vibe: quiet ache. Hidden depth. A moment suspended in stillness.

You’ve done the personal development stuff.


In fact, you could have a PhD in personal development. Brendon Burchard, Tony Robbins, Mel Robbins… and still? Something is missing. You know the lingo. You’ve got the mindset. But you don’t have the feeling.

Your life looks good, but it doesn’t feel good.

Your relationship with money is transactional, flat, boring. Just like your relationship with your body.

You’ve tried to fix it with strategy, with spreadsheets, with logic. But what you haven’t done is allow yourself get messy. Erotic. Sensual. Honest.

You still shrink in conversations. You overgive. You ghost your desires because you’re too busy being strong and competent.

You haven’t had a real turn-on around money, power, or your own body in months, maybe even years.

I’m so done pretending everything’s fine.

What if your money ritual turned you on?

 

What if payment notifications felt like orgasms?

What if you could move, moan, cry, and create your way into deeper wealth... not by grinding, but by remembering who the fuck you are?

Well… maybe a little grinding... but like... the other kind.

You want a relationship with money that feels like a committed, sexy lover. You want to wake up turned on by your life, not trapped in it.

You want to play, laugh, dance, sweat, breathe, and feel your way into power.

You want to stop overgiving and start receiving pleasure, attention, cash.

You’ve done the hard shit. You’ve survived. Now it’s time to thrive.

Image Description: Kate, a light-skinned woman in a shimmering satin robe stands outside in Times Square with both hands over her heart. She gazes upward with a soft, joyful smile. Her hair is loosely pinned and she wears a white lace choker. The background shows a blurred bus platform, placing the photo in NYC. The image is partially desaturated with selective color on her outfit and skin, evoking a sacred, grounded vibe.
I want wealth that makes me wet.

A unique somatic-based transformational approach...

 

Hot Erotic Messy Money is a bold, body-based workshop for women ready to rewrite their money story through embodied sensuality. This isn’t mindset work in a notebook.

It’s lipstick on your skin.
Literally.

It’s transformational reclamation art — and you are the canvas.

It’s movement, breath, rage, and release.

It’s the reclamation of your erotic power as your wealth blueprint.

What makes this different?

You get trauma-trained facilitation that meets your nervous system where it is.

You get neurodiverse-affirming guidance from someone who actually gets it.

You get somatic and sensual practices that shift your state — not just your thoughts.

And here’s the real magic:

We don’t just think differently about money —
we repattern our relationship to it at the sensory level.

Just like techniques used to relieve phantom limb pain retrain the brain through visual and physical input, this work helps you rebuild a felt sense of wealth, safety, and power in the body… even if it’s been missing for years.

We don’t just talk money.

We move it.
We seduce it.
We strip shame off it.

And we build a relationship to wealth that your body recognizes — and keeps.

Image Description: A joyful group of four women sits on a white couch, each holding a workbook titled “Exotic vs. Erotic.” The group includes diverse body types and skin tones, dressed in playful and revealing lingerie. They are laughing, connecting, and fully engaged in the shared experience. The mood is vibrant, inclusive, and celebratory, with color pops focused on red and black garments against the clean white backdrop.
I’m ready to move like money already loves me.

Strip the shame.

Move the money.

Become the wealth.

Image Description: Kate, a light-skinned woman in white lace lingerie and a matching choker leans back with her head thrown in ecstasy or release. Her eyes are closed, and her long hair flows back as she stands in the middle of a blurred city street. The image is mostly in black and white, highlighting her body and expression. It evokes liberation, surrender, and erotic power.
Yes, I want this.
Image Description: A selfie of Kate a light-skinned woman in a mirror reflection in black high-waisted bottoms and red sequin rose nipple pasties, wearing a red lace robe and smiling in the mirror. Her arm is raised, and she confidently poses in a white, softly lit bedroom that is messy with clothes and content creation equipment in the background. Her long hair is ombré and her lips and cheeks are accentuated with warm red tones. The image captures a sensual, self-loving moment.

About Kate

 
I’ve led classes of 100+ at the FDNY. Cast talent for MTV networks. Wined and dined real estate billionaire moguls. I’ve danced half-naked in my wedding night lingerie in Times Square. (Some of those photos are on this page.) And I’ve coached thousands of women through identity deaths, pussy rebirths, bold voice activations and unapologetic leadership since 2019.

I’m AuDHD. Trauma-trained. Pleasure-obsessed. I hold containers where women stop masking and start embodying.

I’ve helped clients...
launch heart-centered businesses.
wear bikinis in public for the first time and fall in love with their bodies.
discover their authentic self and purpose.
turn on their magnetism.
leave their partners and find true love.
buy homes. heal trauma.
revolutionize entire goddamn industries.

I’m not your fucking guru.
I am your activator.
I don’t ask you to follow me.
I walk you back to yourself.

Fuck yes, Kate! Lead me there.
Image Description: A close-up of a smiling woman with “RICH” painted in red across her forehead and colorful streaks of paint on her face and neck. Her eyes sparkle with joy, and she wears bright red lipstick. Words like “abundant” and “artistic” are visible on her neck and shoulders. The grayscale background contrasts with the vibrant painted affirmations, creating a playful, powerful effect.

Real women.
Real embodiment.

 

“I had no idea I’d cry, moan, and reclaim my voice all in one session. Kate is a fucking magician.”
Aleah

“Kate makes trauma healing feel like a dance party. I’ve never felt so seen and safe.”
Julie

“Every time she speaks, my nervous system sighs in relief.”
Aisha

“I didn’t just find my sensuality, I found my power.”
Rebecca

“Kate guided my beautiful mix of magic + mess encouraging full expression of both.”
Rhiannon

“She is brilliant at explaining why women feel shame and where it stems from. She held compassionate space to allow our grief. Then gathered us back in silent confrontation. She showed us it was time to leave it behind, if we chose.”
Felice

“When I look at myself in the mirror now, I see a woman who is whole… who has some battle scars, who has suffered one or two broken hearts, but is resilient and powerful in having survived all of that.”
Dana

“My mindset and emotions were running the show in a way that wasn’t beneficial. Kate gave me tools I actually find useful and aligned.”
JL

“Kate encourages women to trust their own voice and not follow a set plan or template — vital when trying to create real, impactful change.”
Krystal

I want to feel what they felt.
Image Description: A black and white photo of Kate, a light-skinned woman in her white lace wedding lingerie and garters, crawling on a raised city platform in the middle of Times Square in NYC. She makes direct eye contact with the camera, her body posed in a mix of defiance and seduction. The urban background includes a pickup truck and trash bins. The tone is raw, unapologetic, and rebellious.

The Method

 

I went from dropping out of college six times to becoming a trauma specialist. From rigid corporate perfectionist to lingerie-clad embodiment leader. From surviving burnout to seducing the moment.

My method blends somatic intelligence, sensual embodiment, and erotic archetype activation.

This isn’t about being performative sexy for the world.

It’s about being alive for yourself.

I guide you to unmask, strip down — not just physically, but emotionally — until your truth, voice, and erotic power are taking up bold space with your undeniable brilliance.

Yes, I want the whole-body fuck yes version of me.
Image Description: A close-up of a light-skinned woman winking and smiling with playful intensity. Her face is painted with bold words like “WORTHY,” “LOVER,” and “FIEND” in neon red and black across her cheeks, forehead, and chin. She wears bright lipstick and hoop earrings. The color is selectively saturated to highlight the makeup and lips against a grayscale background. The mood is cheeky, bold, and empowered.

This is for:
• Women (cis, trans, non-binary femmes) ready to reclaim sensuality & money
• Those who’ve done the healing and want the embodiment
• Rebels craving power, pleasure, and unapologetic joy

• Anyone open to movement, moaning, and major change (no dance experience required)

This is not for:
• Right-wing extremists
• People looking for a business blueprint
• Those who can’t respect boundaries
• Anyone unwilling to get uncomfortable in the name of aliveness

This is so fucking for me.
Image Description: A stylized promotional image showing a desktop, phone, and laptop mockup of the Hot Erotic Messy Money course interface. The screen shows Kate Bailey leading a live session, a painted body image on a phone, and course module names on a tablet. In the center, bold text reads “Hot Erotic Messy Money” with artistic brushstroke treatment. The background is black, creating a sharp, modern contrast.

What's Included

 

Hot Erotic Messy Money
Live Intensive

Date:
Sunday July 27th @ 8pm est 

Duration:
1 to 3 hours
(depending on group size) 

Format:
Live Zoom, interactive, embodied, and sacred AF with information on how to access hosted on your own private login portal.

You’ll experience:
• Intention setting + consent-based grounding
• Storytelling circle to release money shame
• Lipstick ritual (yes, on your body)
• Sensual movement + breathwork for reclamation
• Closing water ritual to cleanse and claim your body

Bonus:
Super Early Bird access gets $200 off until July 11th.

Pricing Tiers:

Waitlist:
$97 + Bonus Course → Closed June 20

Super Early Bird:
$97 ($200 off) → Ends July 11

Early Bird:
$197 ($100 off) → Ends July 19

Regular Price:
$297 → Final day to enroll: July 27

* Replay available for 90 days.

Image Description: A close-up of a medium-toned chest and collarbone, slick with water. Bright red and black body paint streaks the skin diagonally. A soft beige cloth is seen wiping the skin gently in the lower corner. The lighting is warm and intimate, evoking a feeling of sacred cleansing and embodied transformation.
Let’s go! I’m ready to strip for my own power.
Image Description: Kate, a light-skinned woman with long brown hair sits confidently in an open satin robe and white lace lingerie. The phrase “WORSHIP ME” is visibly written in black above her chest. Her windblown hair and steady gaze give the portrait power and sensuality. She wears gold earrings and a white lace choker. The background is blurred urban street. Tones are desaturated except for skin and lips, creating an editorial, raw effect.

Limited spots available.

 

There are limited spots available for this intimate workshop space. Once it fills, it’s closed.

If your body is saying yes, trust that.

When you enroll, you’ll receive:

• A juicy welcome email
• A ritual prep guide
• Your link to the Zoom info and private portal
• And a live embodied experience that changes the way you receive money forever

I’m not waiting. I’m coming for it NOW.




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